
A memory in the making
At The Alexander, A Wedding is more than just a ceremony – it’s a celebration from start to finish. Whether it’s a laid-back gathering with friends or a full weekend of festivities, we’re here to make sure every moment is filled with joy, laughter, and memories you'll cherish forever.
Welcome your guests or bridal party with a special happy hour at one of our two bars. From signature cocktails to bites from the kitchen, welcome your guests with a VIP happy hour.
Wedding welcomes
Bring your loved ones together for an intimate and elegant wedding kick-off. We’ll bring our signature attention to detail to elevate every element of your rehearsal dinner with restaurant quality food in our one-of-a-kind dining room.
Rehearsal Dinners
We have many special spots throughout our Victorian Mansion that provide show-stopping wedding alters. Our second-floor turret (pictured) hosts ceremonies of up to 45 guests and creates an intimate setting for your “I do.”
Ceremonies
After Parties
The party only starts after you say “I do.” We want you and yours to make unforgettable memories with us late into the evening. Our family of restaurants includes a pizza and wing shop right around the corner, where we can bring the best bites to you late at night.
photos taken by Meccay Photography
Farewell Brunches
There is no better way to round out your wedding celebration than with a gourmet send-off. A weekend brunch at The Alexander offers the perfect setting for an elegant farewell. An elegant or relaxed brunch will strike the perfect tone for fond, lasting memories as we send you and your family off into your next chapter.
photo taken by Abby Quatro
Photoshoots
No better place to capture the moment than within our historic venue. As one of Rochester’s oldest hospitality venues, The Alexander has a rich history and provides a great backdrop for lasting memories. Oh, and show-stopping light that will make your photographer very happy :)
photo taken by Abigail Elizabeth